And now a few words in defense of Pastors. Already I can see the raised eyebrows of my listeners. "What do you mean–in defense of pastors?" It's my careful observation–over a couple of decades now–that most pastors really COULD use a little defense. So given the fact that October is Pastor Appreciation Month, I thought I'd try to get you to appreciate your pastor a bit more. About the only way to do that is to address some common misconceptions people have about pastors.
Misconception #1 Everybody fauns all over the pastor. He gets all the affirmation in the world. Not so. In addition to "attaboy" pats on the back after typical Sunday services, pastors get tons of criticism, as well. Discouraging emails, irate phone callers, unsigned letters shoved under their office doors. The truth: Everybody does NOT faun all over the pastor. And as for all that praise… lots of it is kinda shallow, however well intentioned.
Misconception #2 Pastor's got a pretty easy gig. After all, in a typical week he shows up for a few meetings, researches the sermon and visits a few sick people. How hard can it be? The truth? Your pastor is on call 24 hours a day. He spends LOTS of late nights intervening in crises and counseling people. He knows terrible secrets he wishes he did not. You probably have very little idea just how much weight he carries on his shoulders at any given moment.
Misconception #3 He's surrounded by people every Sunday, so he must have tons of friends. The truth: very few pastors have even one close friend. Not wanting to play favorites, they live a lonely life.
Be a friend to your pastor. Cut him some slack. Give him your loyalty. Pray for him daily! Heaven knows he needs this!