He is relentless. Unstoppable. And he seems to turn up just about everywhere at just the wrong time. I'm talking about my nemesis—and yours: Shame. He’s the voice that accuses you. He’s two shots of Red Bull—at midnight. He’s the one who remembers every detail of every regret you’ve tried to forget. He's the broken record whispering your faith is too small, your prayers are too short, and your guilt is too great. That’s Shame. And he’s been on the trail—your trail—for a long time. Shame has many brothers and sisters. Unless I'm mistaken, you've met fear, resentment, and jealousy….
You CAN Memorize Scripture
When I last spoke with Art Rorheim—at the age of 99—he was still memorizing the Bible. Wow! You might be too old to play baseball for the Dodgers. You might be too old to climb Mount Kilimanjaro. You might be too old for lots of things. But I’ve got good news. You’re not too old to memorize Scripture. You say, “Jon, I’m pretty sure I can’t.” I’m pretty sure you can. I’m no whiz, but may I share what has worked for me over a long time? First, choose a verse or passage that really connects with you. Something that…
Accusing God
It is, perhaps, our greatest wickedness: we accuse God. We, the bent— We, the broken— We, the ungodly— We accuse God. When the job is lost— When the money is gone— When the hurt is deep— When the spouse leaves— When the dream crumbles— When circumstances don’t play out— Most of us can be counted on to accuse God. We dare approach the One who made us, lived among us, bled for us, died for us, forgave us, and accuse Him. We accuse Him of not hearing. We accuse Him of not seeing. We accuse Him of not caring….
How’s Your Hate Life?
It's a question you probably haven't been asked before—ever: How's your hate life? Your answer is critical because Psalm 97:10 says, "Let those who love the Lord hate evil." Proverbs 8:13 reinforces that message: "The fear of the LORD is to hate evil." Meaning we are to hate sin. Like many believers, you might respond, "Of course I dislike sin." But that isn't enough. God calls us to hate sin. All sin. Do we? You say, "Isn't this all just a game of semantics? Dislike versus hate—not a big deal." It's a huge deal. Here's why. What we do not…
A United Front
You couldn’t help laughing out loud at the text our daughter sent. She has four kids, ages five to thirteen. And like all children, they can get on each other’s nerves. But—the text says it best: Just got complimented by a guy at Costco for my well-behaved children. (They were awful all morning). The guy turns and leaves, and our oldest—Joslynn—says, "we present a united front, but we have a ton of infighting." Who said kids don’t have a good grasp on things? Sadly, Joslynn's admission is an accurate assessment not just of the world but the Church today. We…
Four Words
The other night, I felt the futility of an anxious spirit. In the gray gloom of not-yet-sleep, I pondered my past expenditures on worry. Weariness shrouded me, a sadness for all that wasted emotion and abused adrenalin. And then four words settled upon me: “It is not necessary.” I will not pretend to tell you this was the voice of God, though the thought was certainly of God: “It is not necessary.” This constant churning of ours. It is not necessary. This rehearsing and rehashing of past failures. It is not necessary. This endless doomsday forecasting we gravitate toward. It is not…
Clean Your Dirty Face
"Clean your dirty face." That's what the sign on the store said. It made me want to grab a mirror and check for grime or grease on my mug. Curious, I picked up the store's brochure and learned they were selling thirty-minute facials. As a guy, I’m not well versed here (washing my face takes about 20 seconds). But in talking to my beautiful wife—who has beautiful skin—I learned there’s more to having a clean face than the absence of visible dirt. Hence, the availability of these thirty-minute facial treatments. Being clean is a massive theme in Scripture: David prayed,…
Shrinking Groceries
You’ve noticed, haven't you? Your groceries are shrinking. But not the prices, mind you. A few weeks ago, I made a batch of brownies. Problem is the (brand name withheld) company has thinned down the amount of mix in the box to the point those brownies looked more like a chocolate-flavored postage stamp in a 13 x 9 pan. My suspicions were confirmed a few days ago when making brownies again. Different brand this time, but the directions told me to use TWO boxes! We've seen the same thing with other foods. Though the macaroni box remains the same size,…
God is Always Doing Something
We weren’t trying to pry. But the story just tumbled out. Over dinner, Parker and Lia updated us on their adult children. Two of them were divorced, and one of them—their daughter, Clara—moved back home with her two little girls. While we were touched hearing the stories of how Parker and Lia were stepping up, creating a loving environment for these little ones, our hearts were also sad. Here is a young mom going it alone. And despite all the great support from Clara’s parents, this is a rough ride—for all of them. But there’s more to this story. We’ve…
We Want the Wrong Country
Do you long for the America that used to be? I remember the day when no one questioned a prayer at graduation. Or considered a mention of hell as hate speech. Not that America was ever totally Christian, but one could argue there was a day when this nation had more of a collective conscience concerning the Almighty. Statistics show many more of us used to attend church. Or read the Bible. Or pray. And most folks, born again or not, affirmed some notion of a coming judgment day. Back before America welcomed Buddha, Allah, Krishna, Zen, and the force,…