It’s called Theraputty. To four-year-old Ava, it was "firm play dough." My wife somehow acquired a plastic tub of the green stuff used in exercise regimens to strengthen muscles and joints. At $27 per pound on Amazon, it’s not cheap. But it is fun. Sitting at the kitchen table, we spent hours crafting shapes and critters of all sizes. I attempted a cat, but Ava wondered where the front legs were. Appropriately chastised, I made a horse that did have four legs. This Ava immediately trotted off to her personal pasture. My next attempt was a cube, which she plucked…
Is Disagreeing Hateful?
Free speech is muzzled. Christian viewpoints are silenced. Cancel culture is a seemingly unstoppable stampede. Have you ever asked yourself how we got to this place? There is no single answer. But let me tell you what I think is at the core of much of it: a hijacking of language. This hijacking took place when Christians—and others—who disagreed with the alternative lifestyles many embraced were told our opposition was “hateful.” Mind you, I disagree all the time with my wife—and she with me. That doesn’t mean we hate each other. Any parent of a teen disagrees with their kid’s…
Help! Sliding off my foundation?
What is it with some of us guys? Our eyes can process that there’s a problem—staring us in the face. But our fears keep us from taking action. Example—my garage. As arctic conditions continue, the utility door (just learned that’s what they call the small one on the side of the garage) is failing to latch. The tongue doesn't seem to be long enough to catch the strike plate. This is not the first time the problem has surfaced. Not the second, either. Or the third. (And, um, there's the problem). At first, I chalked it up to old age….
Keep the Light–or Not
What do you like to do on vacation? Our kids call it "lighthouse hopping." It's when my wife and I visit lighthouses. For us, the more, the merrier (hence the word, "hopping"). One hundred ninety-eight years ago, the U.S. Congress appropriated $5,000 to build the Saint Augustine lighthouse in Jacksonville, Florida. In1874, an updated lighthouse replaced the original—one that I recently climbed. That lighthouse is 165 feet tall, with 219 spiral steps leading up to an observation deck 140 feet above the ground. Though the climb will cost you a few minutes (and a few calories!), the views of Matanzas…
God has the Keys!
Question: What’s worse than losing your keys? Answer: Not knowing that you had them in the first place! I remember the weekend when we went out to our camper…minus the keys. Since we'd left one of the hatches unlocked, and since that hatch opened into the trailer, we shoved one of our little kids in that hatch (well, in a nice way) and coached them on how to unlock the door. Recently, four-year-old Sade listened as her mother read about China missionary Gladys Aylward. In one tense scene, Gladys was summoned to a prison and asked to stop the fighting…
Responder–or not?
Recently, I walked by the St. Johns County Fire Rescue Station where I noticed the doors to all the fire trucks were open and a power cord charged each vehicle’s battery—constantly. Firemens’ boots were positioned by each door, ready to slip on. Speaking to one of the rescuers I said, “You guys seem really committed to being ready” (I’m sure I came across as Captain Obvious). He explained, “Once the alarm sounds, we have one minute to get into the truck. In two minutes we need to be out of the station and on the road to rescue.” Hence the…
First Responder—or Non-Responder
Recently, I walked by the St. Johns County Fire Rescue Station where I noticed the doors to all the fire trucks were open and a power cord charged each vehicle’s battery—constantly. Firemens’ boots were positioned by each door, ready to slip on. Speaking to one of the rescuers I said, “You guys seem really committed to being ready” (I’m sure I came across as Captain Obvious). He explained, “Once the alarm sounds, we have one minute to get into the truck. In two minutes we need to be out of the station and on the road to rescue.” Hence…
Unanswered Prayers
Do you ever secretly suspect God might not be interested in your prayers? You've prayed and prayed, but "nothing happens." I know this feeling. Diana and I pray regularly for our neighborhood. We do not pray for their prosperity or health, or jobs. We pray for one thing only: their salvation. We’ve prayed for years—in many cases, by name—for our neighbors. Truthfully, we’ve gone for long stretches when there appears to be no discernible spiritual pulse at all up and down our street. Nothing seems to be happening. Then came the week between Christmas and New Year’s. That’s when the…
Misconceptions
Misconceptions. They’re all around us. My dad recently sent me an article highlighting just a few of the things we believe—wrongly. Misconception: People use only 10 percent of their brains. The Truth: PET scans and MRI scans show activity in all parts of the brain, though perhaps not simultaneously. So it's certainly not accurate to say we utilize only 10% of our brains. Misconception: The Great Wall of China is the only man-made object visible from the moon. The Truth: Standing on the moon, astronauts cannot observe one single man-made object. In fact, astronauts testify that the Great Wall…
How Many Santas?
Before you pack away the last of the lights and ornaments… Question: How many lawn decorations does it take to celebrate Christmas? A few blocks away lives a family that graduated from the more-is-better school of Christmas decor. With the kind assistance of my wife, we tallied the plethora of plastic persons adorning their lawn. We counted: 13 Frosty the Snowman characters 17 carolers 40 candy canes 39 toy Soldiers 11 giant lollipops 3 giant candles 7 angels 3 camels 5 sheep These were all large-scale plastic pieces. Wonder where they store them all. Question: How many Santas does it…