When you go out to dinner, do you bow your head and thank God for the food? I’m guessing you do.
But did you ever consider that your waiter—and other waiters around—notice your prayer? From that moment on, everything you do and say to the restaurant staff reflects on the character of Jesus.
We call ourselves Christ followers. So, do we speak to the wait staff with kindness and respect—as would Christ? Are we patient when the food takes longer than expected, or do we roll our eyes?
When we’ve finished eating, and it’s time to pay the bill, do we tip? And if so, are we cheap—or generous?
People who don’t know Jesus are watching to see how those who claim to know Him live their lives.
And like it or not, eating out means when you feed your face, you’re painting the face of Christ—with your words, your conduct, and your tip.
My brother, Tom, once worked as a waiter, and he told me that in general, his worst customers were Christians. It made him angry when they made a big show of bowing their heads and praying for the meal—but then complained sourly about their food order. Or tipped with only a gospel tract—no cash.
Most folks have pretty strong opinions about tips—one way or the other. And I struggle to know what’s right, just like you. But this isn’t about my opinion or yours. It’s about the reputation of Jesus Christ.
Next time you’re eating out, you’ll either image Jesus well—or leave egg all over His face. How ‘bout a side order of kindness?
Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity.
Colossians 4:5
